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psychological experts say parents should respect their feelings, and to give the people, had been New Town in Guangzhou,chaussures de foot, the fruit market, business, Xiao Gang. At 19:00 on October 22, 2001 more than 2-year-old son Jet ten minutes after she left her no the audio. Immediately, she and her husband called the police to the clouds. 4 O8 ^! e0 E5 _( a a* M* m
million Chui Yin repeatedly inquired and learned that her son was taken away with the fruit in the market to do business Chaoshan. Wan Chui Yin find the rental house,nike mercurial, but the landlord did not register their identity card. Police initiating an investigation, but this is replaced in six months Chaoshan couples house six or seven times, each time using the names are different, it brings a lot to look difficult. Cui Xian Fufu know Adger million should be sold to the Chaoyang annual New Year's festival will be the time to go in Chaoshan luck, but always without result. Wan Chui Yin said, 9 years, they have never stopped looking for his son. She also remembered his son Jet's right leg was on a large motorcycle exhaust pipe burn scars. - g& [. X; b! A% C5 g
2009 年 5 months, the white police arrested suspected of trafficking in Hainan suspect Xiaojie Chen × Hing. × Xing Chen Xiaojie account was sold to the price of 13,500 yuan Rao Valley town of Chaoyang. December 29, 2009, police in handling cases of deep Yangcun Rao Valley town bought that year found children who successfully rescued a 9-year-old abducted Jet. The DNA analysis proved that Adger was Chui Yin million children. + `9 \+ M6 ]) C" U+ w* b
came back to rescue the child, how to do accounts? Education and how to do? Guangzhou Baiyun Yunfu City Public Security Bureau police take the initiative to contact the local police station for home procedures, as issued by Jill Baiyun local village committee secretary and primary transfer arrangements for the person responsible for Jill, and Jill and the local villagers to give their children received the same treatment --- nine-year compulsory and free each week. Previously, Jill was in sixth grade at the Chaoyang, Cui Xian Fufu by the million, and the local primary school principal, after discussions, decided to schedule this spring from the fifth grade Jill the second semester and re-played to suit the progress of education in Guangzhou. - D; H" X5 @" _$ H2 ^9 K2 i$ q! b
. y' i$ r0 f- t Jill rescued came back psychological problem caused great concern of the police. Guangzhou Baiyun specifically invited the police in Guangdong Province Institute of Mental Health professionals, for Jill to do psychological counseling in order to adapt to his new life psychologically. / G; ]. ~# k1 G3 }: a# E
let the children express their feelings naturally
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Tse Wing-standard (Guangdong Provincial Institute of Mental Health, Mental Ward, deputy director) : T; ]6 V3 K& n5 X1 e" Y- r
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small Jay from 9 years of his life for a whole family to come out into another relatively unfamiliar environment, which notes the growth of a critical period in children, is a major change. His emotional attachment to the adoptive parents, not to say that you can break off of. This relationship with his adoptive parents, I think not being cut off. As parents, we must respect this feeling, let the children learn naturally express these feelings, otherwise it will result in a child's psychological depression, and even social cognitive disorder, is not conducive to child growth and view of the world.
! r2 E) X- R3 R) o Another problem is the changing role of families with children. Chui Yin in million home, there are brother and sister Jill, from much loved family, What a small, heavy pressure of family life boss, which Jill is a new subject in terms. Parents to know how to give children Especially about to enter puberty, psychological sensitive children. 6 ^/ G9 Y$ k1 q v; U% g
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! l, {) e) J9 X* \- o Daughter: (laughing) or call her mother. But they say the mother called.
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3 \) c" X2 F! c7 W0 h Daughter: (laughing, shaking his head) do not know. ! k6 r: W% I+ H5 C$ Y. `
3 a3 R* ^. K! y \ Daughter: do not want to. Children do not know where the road do not know. 1 X5 |2 R- I/ }4 S! Y' Q" ^, h) p7 o
8 e( ^! i9 t. x! ] Daughter: (nodding) when I wanted to go back in Guangzhou, in the Valley want to come back when Rao Guangzhou. + m$ G! ]" T! N! I. V* g" V/ U, {
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Daughter: two or three days to play again. Mother (adoptive mother) crying on the phone.
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Daughter: (shaking his head) did not. * P0 |% j; j$ {6 T8 n. T
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Daughter: want to build a large house in Dongguan, Google Rao's foster parents and parents in Guangzhou, we live together.
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